A Deer Lakes family held a disc golf outing to honor their son Jack Scherer, who died by suicide in 2020, while also raising awareness and support for suicide prevention. The event carried both grief and purpose, with proceeds helping the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention and a scholarship for Deer Lakes High School students in math and chemistry. What stands out most is how the family transformed sorrow into service. Their words carry the weight of love and warning: “Reach out. Don’t give up. Keep talking,” and “Stay close to people,” a reminder that isolation can deepen suffering and that presence matters. In a culture that often rushes past pain, this family chose to speak plainly about loss, mental health, and the need to stay connected. Christian faith does not minimize this kind of heartbreak. Scripture gives permission to grieve honestly while also pointing toward hope. God’s nearness is not distant or abstract; it meets people in the valley of sorrow. Another helpful reminder is found in 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NIV): “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” This calls us to offer more than kind words; it invites us to provide steady encouragement, listen with compassion, and come alongside those who may be carrying difficult burdens alone. For anyone touched by suicide loss, Romans 12:15 (NIV) offers a gentle posture: “Mourn with those who mourn.” The church is at its best when it refuses easy answers and instead offers steadfast companionship, prayer, and care. This story is a sober reminder that behind every public fundraiser is a private family story of love, absence, and remembrance. It also points to a Christian response: speak hope, stay close, and make room for honest conversation so no one suffers alone.
The Christian Association for Survivors of Suicide Loss, Inc. (suicideloss.org) provides support to those who have lost a loved one to suicide through support groups and church support. If you are in crisis, dial 988 or 911 for assistance.
